Wednesday, October 8, 2014

Positive Cognitive Dissonance

I was on the phone last night with my sister.  She was mentioning a friend’s son dropped out of medical school after the first 2 years.  Most likely because he was so smart he could see the severe flaws in our conventional medical system.  I thought about the numerous medical students I’ve mentored in my 23 years at our medical school.  Keeping several of them from dropping out!  Most of them get connected to me because of my interest in non-conventional medicine.

That is why I am the self-proclaimed heretic. 

I told her to get me in contact with him.  Perhaps a conversation about the larger range of possible practice of medicine would be helpful.  I so dislike smart students dropping out because they don’t like our medical system. 

I want them in our system so they can help to shepherd much needed changes! 

Or, maybe he would rather be a naturopath…    

I also told her to have him look at my blog, and start from the beginning, since it might be helpful for him to see other ways of thinking. 

She then informs me she never heard about my blog! 

I know I sent her a link early in 2013 when I wrote something about our childhood.  But, she never read it. 

Interesting!

That gave me a chance to go back to my first entry, where I proposed some initial questions:

1-Can we hold 2 ideas that seem to be complete opposites?

2-Is there actually more truth contained, when we hold 2 seemingly opposing ideas?

3-How do we become more comfortable with holding 2 seemingly estranged ideas at the same time?

4-How can holding opposing views help us evolve as humans, maybe also so that our social systems evolve with us?

5-How can considerations of the science and ideas at the edges of what is known, help us to better understand our world, and help us to grow as individuals and societies?

I carry around blog ideas in my iPhone and the title of this entry was one of them.  I awoke at 2 am and didn’t want to sit and meditate.  I felt the need to write.  I saw my iPhone entry and remembered my first blog entry. 

Cognitive dissonance is usually thought of as a negative experience:  “…cognitive dissonance is the mental stress or discomfort experienced by an individual who holds two or more contradictory beliefs, ideas, or values at the same time, or is confronted by new information that conflicts with existing beliefs, ideas, or values.”     

Of course we see this in everyday life.   The example given in the above Wiki entry is, “Not wanting to get intoxicated while out, then consuming six tequila shots.” 

I like the better example of a conservative lawmaker fighting for independence from government interference, and then passing laws governing reproductive freedom, or same gender marriage!    

Perhaps, we should also examine the liberal cognitive dissonance thinking of wanting the social freedoms of reproductive choice and same gender marriage, and then wanting to severely restrict gun ownership due to irrational fears (Oh, you are such a Liberal Heretic!). 

Positive cognitive dissonance concerns the paradoxes that point toward higher truth. 

Here is an interesting entry into conventional paradox. 

I blogged about how something we might consider to be ugly, compared to what we consider beautiful, can be transcended by a third higher consideration that everything has intrinsic Beauty. 

A Koan is a traditional Zen method of contemplating a paradox that can lead to enlightenment. 

I love these 5 Koans:

Who is dragging this corpse about?
What is this?
What is it?
What was the original face before my father and mother were born?
Who am I?

We are slowly evolving as a civilization. 

Perhaps much more slowly than we would like to see…   

Perhaps this medical student drop-out is better off away from the severe conventional thinking that plagues our medical system. 

I tend to disagree. 

Likely for this medical student it is difficult to see more clearly than the vast majority of people in his school. 

Perhaps it is helpful to understand that a person on a lower scale of development cannot see above their current level of thinking. 
 
There are people who work in conventional medicine who do see more clearly and function at a higher level of consciousness.  Often we are hidden.  Find us in the Healer’s Art electives and the complementary and alternative medicine electives at your medical school. 

Practice Positive Cognitive Dissonance. 

Contemplate the paradox of practicing within conventional medicine while holding a higher evolved view of what is true and real. 

Your presence is needed. 

Join me in evolving current medical practice to a higher level.

We need you!

Namaste. 





Sunday, August 17, 2014

Connections

I am always fascinated by the human mind.

This morning I was away from home, at my sister’s, reading Stan Grof’s “Realms of the Human Unconscious.”  Particularly, I was contemplating his “COEX systems” theory.  These are “systems of condensed experiences.”  He came up with this theory after guiding thousands of LSD treatments, mostly with psychiatric patients. 

These are related experiences from perinatal, infancy, and throughout an entire life that have an emotional theme.  Although there are positive COEX systems, Grof focuses on those with associated negative emotion, often due to humiliation, guilt, emotional deprivation, or violence of many types.  Grof connects these experiences to certain defense mechanisms. 

The second thoughts that came up for me was my wife’s experiences during guided shamanic journeying.  Her guide felt connections to past ancestors that needed to be severed.  These connections were not serving my wife at this time.  That led to my own journeying to cut unhelpful connections to my past ancestry. 

The third feeling that came up for me was there also must be connections to future beings.  This might even be through various parallel universes (Scientific Heretic!). 
See my varieties of human unconscious in here: 

Even further, in this life we are beings that have various connections to people we might see daily, to people we see less frequently, to memories of people dead or long out of contact.  These days we have connections through social media, as well as general media information of many sorts. 

Now this was getting complicated! 

Two questions then came up: 
1-Which connections have the greatest influence on our current unfolding life? 
2-How do we deal with negative influences? 

Personally, for number 2, I have used regularly to semi-regularly, exercise, meditation, shamanic journeying, psychotherapy, acupuncture, massage, and energy work. 

There is new and interesting data on the use of entheogens, such as LSD, psilocybin, mescaline, ibogaine, dimethyltryptamine, and MDMA, for accelerating psychotherapy through better accessing unconscious information.   

I will sit with further contemplation and possible answers. 
Take this blog as seed planting, both for you and for me. 

Let us see what will unfold…



Friday, August 15, 2014

Love

Holding

This Precious One Life

And an Other

Deeply

Resonating

Dancing

Holding

Sacred

This gift

Thankful

Touching her skin

The memory

Touching her heart

Always with me

Perhaps

There is truly no

Other

Source may hide

But Source

Also gives

This gift

This pleasure

Of being

Of doing

Resting near her

Her

This most precious being

Gifted

To travel with me

Unfolding

Together




Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Hotel Rooms

After 12 hours driving

Thinking about the drive

Thinking about the destination

Six hours more in the morning

A little rain

A little construction
 
Listening to a pretty good book on CD

Snacking on fruit and other travel food

Occasionally just driving

Listening to the mind

Taking breaks

Peeing out, coffee refill, gassing up

Landing in a hotel

Doing email

Catching up on clinical questions

Drinking wine and eating chocolate

Video Google chat with my life partner

Playing a little guitar

Thinking about the special people in my life

The good work that unfolds before me

Feeling lucky

Desire arises

Looking at desire

Sitting with desire

Letting go

Letting go

Letting go

Everything unfolds

In its own time

Exactly as it will

Perfectly

Despite a desire for things

To be

Other

Than what they are
 
A smile arises

Laughter arises

Thank you Source

We are given

Exactly what we need

For growth

For evolution

Holding with grace

Only love arises